Cyd started the topic How do you know you are ready for a relationship? in...
Hi everyone, Being that we are upon the beginning of a New Year, I wonder if this could possibly be the year I find myself becoming friends with and courting a potential mate. Judging from my horoscope...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic How to forgive in the forum Relationships
I’m sorry for how you are feeling at this current time and I understand the pain you are feeling. First off, I would like to ask what attracts you to these type of mates? Sit down and write out the...
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Cyd replied to the topic Acceptance in the forum Relationships
Hi there, I sense that you value what matters to others more that what matters to you. Remember that all sources of life must flow throw you. All energy must flow through you first. YOU are the center....
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic How Do I Let Go? in the forum Relationships
Hi Eden, First and foremost I dig your name lol I have also dealt with self righteous manipulating people before. They never want to be wrong because they have too much pride and are on a HUGE ego...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic Hard time moving on and letting go of false hope in...
Hi all, It will take some time to get over the bitterness ,depression, and resent. I hate to say this, but there are millions of other people out there you have the chance of getting to know and build...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic Happiness on your own in the forum Relationships
Hi Sam, I understand how you feel as far as seeking validation to enhance your self esteem as well as being rejected. Don’t think rejection means you are not worthy to be loved at all. It just means...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic Making a tough decision (college) in the forum...
Hi K, I’m a current college student and have been where you are. It is very stressful. Generally speaking, in your first year at most universities you take general education courses also known as...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic How to let go and finally accept myself? in the...
Hi Julie, I have a question for you that I want you to answer everyday you wake up and get out of bed. That question is : What would happen if I felt I was enough? How would I feel about myself? How...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic Separation after 24 years in the forum Relationships
Hi Jane, Sara’s words were so profound I can’t help but piggyback on what she said. As a man, I can not fathom the feelings of guilt and shame I would feel if I ever stepped out on my marriage (if I...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic 14 year bad relationship, Im still in love ,but hes...
It’s not about you loving him. It’s about you loving yourself. You are in a relationship that doesn’t show evidence of any characteristics of self love. He doesn’t love his self either. I never met a...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic Suggestions on stopping the thoughts in the forum...
Hi Trixie, WOW! You do this too?! I think about my ex all the time. We broke up over a year ago and just yesterday I was driving on a highway coming from church and just so happened to see a truck that...
View ArticleCyd started the topic When something feels better than nothing in the forum...
Recently I have been talking to an “ex” that I had not spoken to for most of last year considering both of our lives have changed and brought us in different directions. I realize that I only feel a...
View ArticleCyd started the topic Love is Overrated in the forum Relationships
I can’t seem to understand how a person can’t go all the way with you. By this I mean someone who doesn’t tell you how they really feel and be upfront and truthful. They would rather vanish and block...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic Love is Overrated in the forum Relationships
Thanks for your replies everyone! Karin, I definitely understand that I have to love myself before I love someone else or let them love me. I’ve been on a path of personal growth for about a year now...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic In/Out of Emotionally Abusive Relationship in the...
I was in the same position until yesterday when I decided to get back on the path of personal growth and find the love I deserve. I stayed in an emotionally unavailable relationship for 3 years amid my...
View ArticleCyd started the topic Addictive Relationship...Fear of never getting over...
I have been in and out of an addictive situation for 3 years now. I was there for this person from the very beginning and watched them grow. I never left their side and for them to not even see me...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic Still Having Trouble Moving On in the forum...
Hi there, In reality you won’t ever be able to let him go completely because your heart will always have some residual feelings left for him. I know this sounds cliché, but time heals all. It can take...
View ArticleCyd replied to the topic Looking for advice... in the forum Relationships
Don’t be scared. I too struggle with social anxiety and bouts of occasional depression. You were totally right for bringing that issue up to him and should in no way feel insecure for what you did. No...
View ArticleCyd started the topic Hate when people cross boundaries! in the forum...
Just a little back story. My dad was killed in a tragic accident 5 months ago. It was a really hard time for me and my family but I handled it very well. Even though he is not here with me in person,...
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